The Kick-Ass Blog
Overwhelmed by the Mental Load
Are you in a tug-of-war over how you care for kids, maintain the house, and do all of the things that life brings (finances, social life, fitness, etc.)? Time and energy are limited. We try to support each other but sometimes we get in each other’s way. The game is...
How do I get my partner to read this book?!
This question is the biggest challenge: how to get my book into the hands and thoughts and actions of the people who need to read it the most. If you have tried to start the conversation and your partner got defensive, I have some ideas for you! You may feel like you...
Companion Guide to “How to Be a Better Partner”
How do I get my partner to read this book? Let's start here: Your husband isn’t an insensitive asshole. He just plays one on TV. I wrote a book for him on how to be a better partner. I even illustrated it and kept it short. If your first thought was, “oh, he REALLY...
Create Your Own Free Father’s Day Card
What is Father’s Day? Is it a day to honor your father? to celebrate your masc parental figure? or to give Dad a break? Yes to all of these, and … Today you get to make your own FREE Father’s Day card! (My Mom would be so proud that we are subverting Hallmark’s plan...
Are you ready to quit parenting?
Parenting sucks sometimes. If you’re lucky, your kids take it easy on you. If you’re really lucky, they make you look like great parents. What if the little plastic arrow on the cardboard spinner of your Game of Life doesn’t land on the lucky side? Well, you can be in...
What if I just try a little harder? About meditation hacks and wasted efforts.
I feel like a fool. I just learned how to use Flonase. You don't understand. This is huge. I have taken Flonase for over 20 years. Today I learned that I have been wasting over 90% of it by using it improperly. The short version: Instead of allowing the medicine to...