The Kick-Ass Blog
What are my superpowers?
My superpowers give me the courage to “go out on a limb.” When I was a kid, I wanted the powers I saw in comic books like super-strength and the ability to fly. As a father, I am discovering new superpowers that I had all along. The last few years, my life feels like...
Race to Somewhere
The 2010 documentary Race to Nowhere showed how the college rat race was stressing kids out, hurting them both emotionally and physically. Stress came from a lot of directions, sometimes with good intentions. They felt stress from school, from parents, from peers, and...
#LaughMore to let go of worry
If laughter is the best medicine, how can you let your guard down to be silly and make things fun with your family? Here’s the harder question: how do you lighten up when you want to shake your child for not listening or put your fist through the wall out of anger?...
What does 175 grams of plastic have to do with building a strong family?
Ultimate Frisbee is a sport I have played for nearly 30 years. During that time, Ultimate was a college sport, then a source of fun and fitness for me, and later a way for me to connect with my own kids. My whole family has enjoyed the Philadelphia Ultimate...
Who cares about Dads?
Can you hear it? We’re finally starting to talk about fathers and parenting differently. Having just watched the Super Bowl, how many ads featured parents and their relationships with their kids? Dads are staying home to take care of their kids. Fathers want to be a...
What can fathers do?
Meeting with a group of high school students, the conversation turned to fathers. One boy, about to go off to college, couldn't stop talking about how angry he was with his father. He didn't listen. He would spend the short time they had together telling him what to...